It is very difficult and not comfortable to open yourself in front of the counselor for the very first time. Regardless of your particular problems, the experience will be long lasting. And if you have the good counselor, psychologist or therapist, then your experience will be completely change and much easier. It is the quality of counselor that he will know how to bond with you and how to start a good relationship with you and other client. The good counselor know how to establish a good relation with you, therefore you feel comfortable and share all the feelings, emotions and thoughts which comes into your mind and in this way the counselor will caught the exact problem of your mind. Find a therapist is very difficult job because it is very important to develop a good understanding between you and your counselor, therefore both of you know each other and understand each other. Cities are full of counselors, therapists and psychologist but it is important to start counseling with that therapist with whom you feel comfortable.
There are lots of online psychologists available nowadays but it is difficult to decide that which psychologist is right one and whom you trust? Find a therapist who has good characteristics and well reputed popularity will help you in taking the decision. First impression is the last impression and this is the best tip for finding the good counselor. First impression is important because when you start your initial counseling sits up and you find that your counselor not dressed up properly and appropriately, then how he will take care of your problem and how he will know the importance of your issues. So it is very important that a therapist and counselor wear the appropriate dress and presents himself as a refined person therefore the client feel comfortable. Find someone who look like an expert but create the friendly atmosphere and introduced himself first and then ask from you, it is the good sign.
If you feel that the therapist or counselor is knowledgeable and trustworthy and you feel that he will understand all of your problems, after having these feelings start sharing your feelings with him, then your counseling sessions run long otherwise if you not feel good in his presence and not feel comfortable then don’t start with him, otherwise you fed up in the middle of the counseling sessions and this will not suitable for you and your mental health. Online psychologist nowadays, going very famous and popular among the people and the first step which these psychologist take is explain the process of counseling that how it occur step by step and it is also necessary that you understand what he is saying and how the process works. If you have some questions in your mind and you ask them from your psychologist and he replied you happily and tries to satisfied you then he is suitable for you. It is very important to know if you are his first priority or not, otherwise you don’t feel better.